Relationship telemetry · for her
The Into You Index reads 20 of his everyday behaviors and returns one number: how into you he actually is. Not what he says. Not what you hope. What he does.
Sample reading — updates live as she answers
The premise
"I'm fine." "You're overthinking." Words are cheap to produce and impossible to verify. We don't score them.
Friends spin it. Family dismisses it. The internet catastrophizes it. Your instinct is real — but it deserves better data.
Who initiates. Who plans. Who reaches first. Twenty observable behaviors, scored. This is the only input the Index trusts.
Protocol
Each one about observable behavior — scored 0, 1, or 2. No essays, no ambiguity, no right answers. Four minutes.
A single score out of 40, computed instantly on your device. The number for the feeling you couldn't name.
Connected, Uncertain, or Checked Out — with a tailored explanation of what your score means right now, and what to do next.
Output
Your Index lands you in one of three zones on the engagement spectrum.
Patterns of emotional withdrawal, disengagement, or avoidance. The energy went somewhere — and the data stops pretending otherwise.
Inconsistent signals. Effort that comes and goes. Commitment that won't declare itself. The zone where women lose the most sleep.
Consistent engagement, effort, and emotional presence. He's in it — and now you can stop wondering and enjoy it.
Privacy architecture
Most women won't ask their friends. They won't ask their mother. They won't ask a counselor. They'll ask the Index — because the Index can't judge, can't gossip, and can't be wrong about what you told it.
Free · anonymous · your score is yours alone
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